Hello everyone,
Today, I'd like to share with you my article which questions us in the opposite direction: What if, instead of trying to find out how to succeed in learning, we were to decipher what goes wrong and leads us to fail?
It's always interesting to analyze what's going wrong with us or our children, because EVERYTHING IS LEARNABLE! We benefit more from analyzing our mistakes, even before we think of a solution to our learning problems.
Here are the 7 most common mistakes that lead to failure:
1st mistake: Repeating the same actions out of habit. How have we learned to learn since childhood? What method do we use? Maybe none at all? Yet unconsciously, we act out of habit, repeating actions by mimicry. But is this mimicry adapted to the way we learn? A good question to ask...
2nd mistake: It's the "Everything right away".. In the short term, we want to act quickly and we're often impatient. But if we have time, we often waste it and procrastinate. What can we do to break this bad habit?
3rd mistake: "It's imagining a negative reality or outcome". Very often, our thoughts are negative and we underestimate ourselves. But do successful people think NEGATIVELY? rarely, or do they bounce back from the negative and turn it into a positive opportunity! like a sportsman's mind! Our thoughts must become constructive!
4th mistake: "It's looking for the easy way out". Our consumer society doesn't help. It doesn't. But it's really by confronting difficulty that we surpass ourselves! After the effort, the comfort! Isn't that so?
5th mistake: "It's the lack of tenacity". Often, we don't follow through. We give up along the way. But what makes us go all the way? Only those who go all the way, keep their commitments, SUCCESS!
6th mistake: "It's the influence of those around us". Very often, we let ourselves be influenced positively or negatively by those around us. But what will enable us to assert ourselves? It's our determination to succeed!
7th mistake: Finally, "it's the fact of undergoing". Very often, we unconsciously undergo events and decisions without really thinking that we can choose and act differently to change our way of thinking and learning. What is it that makes us actors in our own success?
I'll leave you to ponder this last question.
See you soon on your path to success!
With passion,
Anne Laure
